Parenting

Sophia's "Straight A" Son Went To Live With Dad; Now He's A Dropout

Dr. Dale Archer — Sun, 24 Mar 2013 06:00:00 GMT

Sophia's son was a straight A student and received a scholarship for college. He moved across the country to live with his dad, however, and started getting into trouble. Now his dad has kicked him out of the house, he's no longer in school, doesn't work, rides a bike and is lucky if he gets a weekly bath.

Louise's Boyfriend Allows His Daughter And Her Son To Disrespect Them

Dr. Dale Archer — Mon, 01 Oct 2012 14:00:00 GMT

Louise moved back in with her boyfriend a month ago. The problem is that his daughter and her son are both overcoming their addictions and live with them. They act like they don't want her there, and disrespect both her and her boyfriend. She wants a life with him, but it's all about them!

Donna's Sister Performs Exorcisms On Her Son

Dr. Dale Archer — Tue, 14 Aug 2012 06:00:00 GMT

Donna has been given temporary custody of her 15 year old nephew. He has delusions, suicidal thoughts, anger, paranoia and is a danger to himself and others. His mother told him he was possessed, which he believes. His father goes along with everything so his son is not upset. She wants to get mental health help for her nephew, but how, when her custody will run out soon? Thoughts?

Bethann Is Afraid She's Lost Her Daughter

Dr. Dale Archer — Fri, 11 May 2012 06:00:01 GMT

Bethann was married for 18 years before she divorced her husband due to drugs and other women. She admits she made mistakes as she raised her three children alone, but she did her best. Now her oldest daughter is 23 and doesn't want anything to do with her. Mom is distraught, and wonders if it's her daughter's drug use that is causing this. She asks if she lost her daughter forever. Thoughts?

Ella's Daughter Will Not Forgive Her

Dr. Dale Archer — Fri, 04 May 2012 06:00:33 GMT

Ella was an addict who had two little girls. One day she left her girls with so-called friends while she got her fix. When she returned, the oldest, aged 3 at the time, had been raped. Authorities removed the girls and now, 15 years later, she's finally clean. Her oldest daughter forgave her, but the youngest refuses. She wants her daughter back -- what else can she do?

Tracie's Son Has Psychological Problems

Dr. Dale Archer — Sat, 17 Mar 2012 22:00:44 GMT

Tracie is very concerned about her 20 year old son. He began abusing drugs as a senior in high school, and now he is emaciated and has a constant blank stare. His doctor has not been able to find a psychiatrist who is still taking patients and her son has lost his university scholarship. Now she isn't sure how to proceed. Do you have suggestions for her?

Should Marilyn Turn Her Daughter In?

Dr. Dale Archer — Fri, 09 Mar 2012 22:00:21 GMT

Marilyn's 28 year old daughter had a gun and threatened to use it on herself; she even had the note already written. They struggled with the gun, and finally the daughter said she'd get help. Problem is, she's always loaded with prescription drugs. Daughter was committed to the hospital recently, but now she's out and was arrested while driving under the influence. She was turned loose because there was no room in the jail. Marilyn wants to protect the babies, who have been in multiple car accidents with their mother, but is afraid to call CPS because they may take her grandchildren from her. What to do?

Kim, A Grandmother, Can Enjoy Life

Dr. Dale Archer — Sun, 05 Feb 2012 14:00:18 GMT

Kim is a 54 year old grandmother who doesn't enjoy life. She does everything for her family, yet gets nothing in return. Her daughter gave up her two sons to her ex, and now she's deep into alcohol. For New Years Eve her daughter asked if she could join the family, and Kim said NO, because there was going to be alcohol there. Kim isn't enjoying life at this stage of her life and wants to know how to turn things around. What advice do you have for Kim?

Grandmother Doesn't Want Her Grandson Medicated

Dr. Dale Archer — Sat, 28 Jan 2012 06:00:01 GMT

Grandmother is besides herself. Her son had a child in his teens, and the mother is still very irresponsible, living with man after man, some who are taking drugs and some who are dealing drugs. Now the Mom had a doctor put the boy on a stimulant for ADHD. Meanwhile, her son had two more children and cannot afford an attorney to take the mom to court. What would you do if this were your grandchild?

Grandmother Doesn't Want Her Grandson Medicated

Dr. Dale Archer — Sat, 28 Jan 2012 06:00:01 GMT

Michelle's Son Is A Victim Of Domestic Violence

Dr. Dale Archer — Wed, 28 Dec 2011 22:00:29 GMT

Michelle's 24 year old son fell madly in love with a woman. He bailed her out of jail, and she's presently on probation. She has punched him, scratched him, and even broken a picture frame on his head, yet he remains. She is devastated, as fear for her son is turning into anger. Now, he comes into the house and is stealing. She asks what she can do, as her wonderful 26 year old marriage is on the verge of breaking. What would you suggest this devastated mom do?

After The Breakup, Patty's Son Attempted Suicide

Dr. Dale Archer — Mon, 26 Dec 2011 22:00:09 GMT

Patty's 21 year old son made three attempts to end his life. She was lucky; she got there in time. The reason for his actions? It's because of a self-centered girl who thinks only of herself and keeps him around for a while before dumping him. This has happened repeatedly and he drinks heavily and gets depressed each time then attempts suicide. Is the girl the problem here?

Trisha's Kids Suffer Because Of Her Husband

Dr. Dale Archer — Wed, 19 Oct 2011 14:00:58 GMT

Trisha's unemployed husband of 11 years does drugs and steals from her and the children. They lost their home and live in hotel room to hotel room. She has a great job but can't afford daycare or an apartment. Why won't she just leave him?

Kate's Husband Encourages His Son To Smoke Marijuana

Dr. Dale Archer — Sat, 15 Oct 2011 14:00:49 GMT

Kate's husband smoked pot in private. When his daughter died, he let his 15 year old son smoke pot, too. Now the boy is 17, a school dropout who is unemployed and unmotivated and his dad says he needs the pot to stay calm. Now, he's just been arrested for stealing beer. Kate's faith tells her to remain in the marriage, and she asks, 'what can I do?'

Margaret Can No Longer Watch Her Son Destroy Himself

Dr. Dale Archer — Fri, 30 Sep 2011 22:00:20 GMT

Your friend Margaret confides in you. She's seen her son fighting for his life in the ICU because of drugs too many times. She's had enough and is ready for tough love....but it's her son. What would you do if it was your son?

My Son Lost His Memory After A TBI

Dr. Dale Archer — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 06:00:23 GMT

Ever since his traumatic brain injury, he has been angry and unhappy. I know the drugs were from the car accident. He has no memory about things that happened before his accident.

Help! My Nephews Are In Danger!

Dr. Dale Archer — Sun, 28 Aug 2011 16:00:47 GMT

Our hearts are breaking and we know in the end we will be a family that won't be able to say, "we didn't see the signs," because the reality is, the signs have hit us in the face.

My Husband Smokes Pot In Front Of Our Kids!

Dr. Dale Archer — Sun, 28 Aug 2011 12:00:22 GMT

For the past seven years, we have been through more lows than highs, and he has been smoking pot increasingly more and more, to the extent that the past two years he has been smoking it while working and while driving with our children in the car.

How Can We Help Our Suicidal Daughter?

Dr. Dale Archer — Sun, 28 Aug 2011 10:00:39 GMT

Our daughter took an abundance of pills, I guess trying to end her life. She was taken to the hospital and spent about a week in the psych ward. We are at a loss as to how to handle this situation. We need help and are looking for a counselor. Can you suggest how we talk to her?

My Three Daughters Have Been Ripped Out Of My Arms

Dr. Dale Archer — Sat, 30 Jul 2011 22:00:39 GMT

I miss and weep for my beautiful little girls, and I can do absolutely nothing about it. I had no idea he knew exactly what he was doing -- and what he was going to get away with -- for a long time.

How Do I Kick My Son Out?

Dr. Dale Archer — Thu, 23 Jun 2011 12:00:00 GMT

I was a single parent, and unfortunately, my anger for molestation was projected onto my son. We both received counseling. He is now involved in drugs and crime, and he lives with me. He has stolen from me, vandalized my home and I'm scared. He blames it all on me and now I want him out. But how? He won't leave!

Can I Stop My 29 Year Old Son's Downward Spiral?

Dr. Dale Archer — Sat, 28 May 2011 20:13:12 GMT

I have a son who is 29, and we can't find help for him. He had ADD as a child, and started using marijuana as a teenager.

My First Love Is All I Know

Dr. Dale Archer — Fri, 20 May 2011 10:00:19 GMT

I have been with my son's father for six years. During this time he has never held a job -- all he has ever done is sell drugs.

Should A Daily Pot Smoker Be Allowed Unsupervised Visitation?

Dr. Dale Archer — Sat, 09 Apr 2011 11:00:17 GMT

I have been taking my daughter on a regular basis to see her father in an indoor park while being present myself. He now tells me he wants to be able to take her out on his own.

How Can I Keep my Daughter Safe?

Dr. Dale Archer — Thu, 24 Mar 2011 09:00:27 GMT

Last November my daughter was at a party with girlfriends. She admits to drinking and taking a Xanax pill. While in a blackout, a young man, who had just broken up with his girlfriend, took advantage of her, in my estimation.