Life Issues
9/25/2011 6:00:32 AM
Rahul thinks he has the mental disorder called homosexuality and wants to be cured. The APA dropped this as a disease over 30 years ago. What do you think about sexuality, choice or biology? 

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9/16/2011 10:00:06 PM
Esther was raped a year ago. She is still experiencing horrific feelings that all rape victims feel after their attack. She is now reaching out, looking for advice on how she can live a normal life again. What would you tell Esther, who is obviously in pain?
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Categories: Anger/rage  |  Self-Esteem Issues  |  Sex Addiction  |  Stress
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7/30/2011 2:00:43 PM
 It feels like anything sexual is more of a chore instead of a pleasure. I would like to desire and enjoy these experiences, but don't know where to begin.
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7/27/2011 6:00:32 AM
Recognizing him terrified me and brought back all the horrors of the rape, but I still did not reveal my secret. I sort of disappeared. I became someone who tried to please his family and friends. I became what they expected and wanted me to be.
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6/22/2011 12:00:00 AM
While I was in the military, I may have been slipped a drug in my drink. I can't remember what happened, but I had a hickie the next day. My superior wasn't much help.
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Categories: Sex Addiction  |  Work/Career
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6/16/2011 12:00:00 AM
I'm an undergraduate student, and I watch porn every now and then. I feel like I have a problem, because I cannot control myself and stop watching. What do I have to do to stop this bad habit?
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6/3/2011 12:00:00 AM
My brother's voice is like a woman's, and he often has feminine gestures. I often wonder if he's gay.
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Categories: Body Image  |  Sex Addiction  |  Stress
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5/30/2011 8:10:10 PM
My husband is a restaurant manager who is sexting young female employees. I have known this for over four years now.
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5/28/2011 8:00:46 PM
As a child my pediatrician was arrested on 35 counts of molestation of girls. I was 9 or 10 years old. I told my mom that I was uncomfortable with him, but she made me continue going to him.
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5/13/2011 8:14:52 PM
I have recently found that my husband of 20 years views pornography, most of it hardcore and gay.
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Categories: anxiety  |  Family Situation  |  Sex Addiction  |  Stress
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5/9/2011 8:16:48 PM
I knew my husband had a sexual addiction, as he often joked about having a threesome with my friends and me. It never happened, but I felt insecure because of his fantasies. 


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4/29/2011 10:00:54 AM
This is a true story ... never told. I was molested by my grandfather, his friends, and my uncles when I was 3 years old.
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4/10/2011 9:00:55 PM
I love my cousin very much and it was a onetime thing. I am now 18 and I have no idea why I did it and it sickens me.
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3/14/2011 9:00:09 AM
Every now and then, the thought will pop into my head and I stop what I'm doing, no matter where I am or what I'm doing. I think to myself, 'did this really happen or am I crazy?'
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2/13/2011 8:34:18 PM
This is something you can't tell anyone, really. There's no pleasant way to say it, and it's sick and twisted. 
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1/26/2011 5:00:50 PM
When I hear others describe an orgasm, I cannot relate. 
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12/23/2010 5:04:16 PM
Many of us could shed some light on the warning signs and on what went wrong. 
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Categories: Other  |  Self-Esteem Issues  |  Sex Addiction
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12/17/2010 5:15:24 PM
I felt extreme guilt and was very sorry and forgot everything. 
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10/31/2010 1:26:06 PM
I have homosexual attractions, yet I have no desire to live a homosexual lifestyle.
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10/11/2010 1:17:03 PM
I am a 47 year old, very happily married man with zero libido.
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1/30/2010 1:26:56 PM
Imagine being told you have HIV.
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10/6/2009 10:23:37 AM
I grew up poor, and my parents divorced when I was four years old. Mom remarried, and my stepfather, a medical doctor, was wealthy and my life changed. After their second year of their marriage, he became sick. Bipolar disorders, depression, suicidal attempts, hospitalizations were some of the experiences we grew up with in that home.
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10/6/2009 9:35:55 AM
I hope you are fine. I am 28 years old male. I have done masters and doing a good job. My problem is that I have great fear of marriage.
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10/6/2009 9:23:23 AM
I live in the UK. The sight of the naked female is greatly distressing to me. It has been since I was the age of twelve, when a neighbor's daughter decided to enlighten me to the female anatomy.
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