Dear Stefanie,

Unfortunately, you didn't share with me your symptoms. I will say that if depression runs in your family, then chances of you experiencing depression are greatly increased. 

Do yourself a huge favor, Stefanie, and stop worrying so much about a diagnosis. Instead be aware of your symptoms and address those. Online tests are not the same as physically going to a doctor for an evaluation, and should never be relied on for a diagnosis. They are for informational purposes only and often do more harm than good.

 

Many people get confused as to their diagnosis. You may be interested in reading other letters I received, such as "Am I An Addict Or Bipolar?", "Can Anxiety And Depression Go Hand-In-Hand?" and "Can You Recommend Treatment For My Depression?"

It's easy to get borderline and bipolar confused because they share many of the same symptoms. My personal view is that they are related to each other and often respond to similar treatment.

The key in treating a psychiatric condition is what are the symptoms and how are they affecting the way you wish to lead your life. Symptoms need to be treated whether by therapy or meds, the diagnosis is actually secondary. So, make a list of the symptoms that bother you and then look into low cost ways to see a professional in your area.

  

Mason Cooley said "Don't stare into a mirror when you are trying to solve a problem." This is especially true when it concerns your health. I recommend visiting your local mental health clinic, it’s free or very inexpensive, and this is important. 

You're in control here. Please take care of your mental health. 

Dr. Archer